Wet the cheese with the water.
Coat the cheese with flour.
Heat the oil in a pan on medium-high heat. This should be a very non-stick pan. See #3 below
Gently place the cheese on the oil and fry until the bottom has a crust and is golden brown. This should be approx 2 minutes.
Flip and fry until the bottom is golden brown, approx 30 seconds.
Remove the pan from heat, put it on a damp cloth on a temperature-safe tray, bring it over to your guests.
Pour the alcohol on top, light it with a long match.
At this point, everyone should shout OPA! or it won't taste right.
Squeeze a lemon wedge over the cheese to extinguish the flame (blow it out if needed).
Garnish with the parsley, place a lemon wedge on the side, and enjoy.